Rakshabandhan: Rasaal Apne Bhai Ki Dhaal actress Nyrraa M Banerji has shared her idea of love.
"Love is a state of mind. What happens with a person is the attachment which again comes with pleasure and pain leading it to emotional highs and lows. My idea of love is not “falling in love” where pain and pleasure are constant. My idea of love is “rising in love “ where both partners only want to push and support each other to do better and better," she said.
For her, to succeed and to be happy in each other’s successes and achievements are important.
"Love is supposed to give you power to excel in the world, not bind you and make you feel dependent on each other. Trust, commitment, and respect are my kind of love. Loyalty will follow because your feelings would be beyond physical attraction. Love is a magical and spiritual feeling where you know you can conquer the world because you have a partner who’s a huge support," she said.
According to her, different definitions like romantic and platonic to the term love have been given by us.
"Love is a state of mind, and you spread the feeling of compassion for everyone, be it partners, friends, strangers or animals, every living being for that matter. Compassion is the biggest form of love," she said.
Asked if she feels the way social media has blurred the lines between real and fake, it's become hard to find love, she said, "Social media is just a platform where people want to show their natural side or their alter ego. It’s still your own side because it’s yours. Honestly, I think every human being has a human being for themselves destined. You just gotta be clear about what and who you want to attract. Become that person you want to attract. Detox mentally, physically, emotionally and only focus on what you want in your partner. The universe will find and make things happen for you."
Even if one falls in love, sometimes giving time becomes an issue. "Giving time is not an issue. You've got to learn to manage the time! When there is love, and you are mentally, emotionally connected, no matter how far or how busy you are, you will manage to find the time," she said.
According to her, love is an illusion for those who do not understand the true meaning of love.
"Love is the “acceptance of a person”... the way we love our family members in any condition because we have acceptance. Love is a state of bliss. When you are happy, you feel you are in love. The moment you are detached, you feel love is no more. Love could be a very magical experience or it could just be realizing that our feelings may not be magical with anyone but you know you want to spend your life with someone happily," she said.
She doesn't think that celebrities are always chasing name and fame, and they don't find any love. "We work for 12 hours, that's the nature of our business, it's the pattern of our schedule. We do not have a choice to simply drop a project because a lot of people are assigned. We crave for love. After long hours at work, we want our humans to be around, be it our family or a partner, a husband or a wife whom we can just hug and feel at home. We spend so much time on the set with the same people we do not get the chance to explore to find love. That’s why a lot of co-stars get married and fall in love too," she said.
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