As a Gen X guy, I grew up believing that once women got real access to education and opportunity, genuine sisterhood would finally take root. Level the playing field, and they’d start lifting each other up.
.But watching feminism gain a foothold in media and entertainment, I’m left disappointed. Instead of solidarity, we’re seeing privileged, urban Gen Z women tearing into each other with the same tired, low blows.
The ongoing MTV Splitsvilla 16 scrap between Diksha Pawar and Akanksha Choudhary is a perfect (and painful) example. Let’s be clear — Akanksha was no babe in the woods either. She gave as good as she got, and the whole thing turned ugly and physical with slaps, bruises, and social media score-settling
.Yet what stood out was Diksha’s cheap shot — body-shaming Akanksha by calling her underarms “black and dirty.” This wasn’t a desperate underdog fighting an uneven battle. This was a woman with the world at her feet choosing the lowest, laziest route for a quick win
.If today’s influencers and actors are supposed to set examples, what exactly are young girls learning? That it’s fair game to hit another woman below the belt — literally — as long as it fetches likes, clips, and clout?
It also proves a depressing point: attacking a woman in a sexualised or body-shaming way remains low-effort, high-reward behaviour. Even the so-called “woke” urban Gen Z crowd isn’t above it. Real cultural change, it appears, is moving at a glacial pace.
The show makers and broadcasters are equally complicit. They don’t just allow this mess — they provoke it, edit the nastiest bits, and happily ride the wave of outrage for TRPs and trending hashtags.
Would I be living in utopia if I expected real consequences? Diksha was already out of the show, so sacking her wasn’t on the cards. But a quiet benching from TV and OTT? Don’t hold your breath. I wouldn’t be surprised if she lands a big-ticket web series instead — controversy, after all, is currency
.In my ideal world, these young stars would use their massive platforms to champion female higher education, break glass ceilings, and promote responsible choices — rather than trading in catfights and skin shows that dominate Instagram feeds.
We deserve better. Our daughters definitely do.







